Be strong in life

Assalammualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh ~ hi guys. There will be times in your life where you’re challenged, where nothing seems to be going right, where tragedy strikes and you’re left to pick up the pieces. No matter what happen in your life, you must be strong because there are other people like us are facing the same or even worse problems and come out stronger on the other side.

As the saying goes ;

“Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen tothe apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweatness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.

-          Louise Erdrich

If you want to become strong in the face of life problems then you must first understand the thing that makes you weak for if you managed to get rid of your weakness you will become a strong person.

Here are the factors that make people weak in life. The more you become attached to something, the weaker you become. Don’t get me wrong. I am not asking you to give up your dreams but what I am trying to say is that when you find one road blocked you must be strong enough to let go of it and look for another road.

A weak person becomes attached to his past and unable to move on while a real strong person decides to let go and to find another way to get what he wants or even better alternative. You can never become strong if you run from your problems. Don’t fall prey to self deception because sometimes your mind will provide you with an escapement method that is so stealth to be noticed in order to help you escape without feeling guilty. For example, some people who fear social life start to develop internet addiction not because they like the internet but because it helps them find an excuse to escape from their problems without feeling bad.

You might not win every battle, but you can live to fight another day. Years from now current battles will probably seem less important. You may even be able to look back and laugh. Just live your dream and don’t mind the critics, but if you have throw hands throw hands!